Experienced sexual life coach.
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Paoge is a nickname given by netizens for convenience of addressing. It is inconvenient to call him SexFriend or 噻嗑吸孵卵德. In addition, people in society always like to call this brother or that brother, such as MaGe, WangGe and LiGe, which means that social networks perfectly inherit the excellent tradition of false humility and politeness in real society.
It is not accidental to do contents related to gender. I have been interested in these since I was a child. There are also many related books and materials at home. Friends around me have related problems and will come to ask questions. Therefore, it triggered the accidental move of posting Q&A content on the Internet in 2010, and the subsequent process was written in the timeline at the end of the article. If you are interested and have time, you can slowly review them (Chinese).
To be honest, I would not be stupid enough to think that I am an expert in gender, although some people really think so. Sexology is another discipline, belonging to the subdivision field of sociology. I personally prefer to regard sexology as a research direction of sociology, without anything that can be implemented to the application level of life. There are also many sexology professionals in the market who are friends engaged in sex education, which is very difficult. My advice to them is “speak human language”. They listened and have benefited from this advice ever since. Of course, for academics, there is still a little arrogance, respect and look good.
I belong to the wild, I definitely respect the academic set, always pay attention to the trend of sexology academic field, but in practice I am more inclined to pragmatism. I won’t go to buy a consulting certificate to join a certain association to give myself a positive name. I don’t want to fool the fool, and I don’t want to deal with the fool. Whether it works or not, I will look at the effect, and I will be clear in three or two sentences.
I am your happiness life practical information library, large quantity and full live, I myself joke to be human reproduction kinematics (HRK).
People also often come to ask emotional questions. In most cases, I will answer “I don’t know, I don’t understand!” They and she will be very confused, saying: “Aren’t you an expert in gender emotions?”
You are the emotional expert, I am in charge of the two-sex gun!

炮哥 @SexFriend 记事
2023 年聚焦三件事情,Web3 生产与建设,内容创作,跨境零售。
墙内社交网络解惑话题会继续,但会停用一些应用,譬如朋友圈、短视频平台等,非必要不访问,更不会发布内容。这些平台充斥著多弱者情绪,弱智思维,信息茧房的加速编制工具(多数人把这些看成趋势奉为圭皋,傻屄到不能再傻屄了,真的)。
2021 在解惑最开始的时候,我告诉朋友,我希望解惑这个话题可以进行10年时间。此时看来,做到了。
开始进入加密领域进行创作,涉及影像、绘画、文字、音乐。
令我万万没想到的是 💈技苑砸坛💈青年互助社群居然能撑到1周年,以前组建的社群我会因为厌烦而主动解散,如此看来自己成熟不少,群组提倡的“社交兼容”也正是我自己需要进步的关隘,感谢所有群组成员给予的锻炼机会。
2020 组建💈技苑砸坛💈青年互助社群进行人类数字社交行为观察,主张社交兼容,认识了很多新朋友,值得信赖愿意聆听进行自我修正的朋友。当然,也存在一些无可救药的人,他们同样具备超凡价值,是人生警钟。
2019.12.04 POWer以及相关零售教程46023次销售,复购率12%.
这一年结束时,年度关键词是“南”,而我的感觉还算很轻松。网友们关注的问题开始变得五花八门,受骗上当也来找我,我还帮助几位网友追回被骗钱款。新兴的社交媒体在这一年异军突起,人人都想大干一场,到最后……2019-nCoV 意外到来,短暂的惶恐之后我们都安静下来,得以有足够的时间和空间对生活进行反思。
2018 杂事最多最为折腾的一年,由北向南搬迁,和恋人分手,工作中心心念的项目从立项到失败(能力问题)。好在心理方面没受到任何影响(身体也相当健康),情绪始终饱满,双眸依然闪光。解惑?当然没有耽误。
2017 这一年关注者问出最多的问题是“怎么办?” ,情感方面最多的讨论是“分手”,性器官方面最为关注的是“睾丸”,性体验方面“高潮”以绝对优势倍受青睐。也是在这一年,各个平台内容审查政策收紧,无数熟悉的账号被夹,两性领域的自媒体开始用别字代替正常词汇,仍旧是出于对内容倾向正确的考量,我将“约炮”更换为“约会”,其它与性相关的词汇依旧正常使用,不用别字替代。
2016.12.31 29.7万条未关注私信,与3.6万人私信沟通,6万余条公开回答,解惑话题累计17.3亿次阅读。39次直播,付费问答238次。这一年加入了一家直播平台的官方频道,签约时我要求删除“排它条款”,我不愿意或我做不到我就不能签,基本的法律常识契约素养使我免遭3年后的告诉(3年后这些平台靠签约主播诉偿盈利)。
2015.02.02 自2012年开始陆续无规则地在网络上 PO 精炼短篇教程,免费供应。网友托我的同事小鱼转告:“教程真的太管用啦,吧啦吧啦……” 想了想,规划出 POWer 的内容框架开始销售,这些教程在后来的几年里引领了(抄袭洗稿)相当一部分人进入两性教育行业,至今仍旧在发光、发热、发挥力量。
2014.06.03 玩票做周边,T恤、手机壳、[聚之]皮毡混合钱包、[壳]T1皮套、小蝌蚪Mac贴……还挺好玩。
2013.11.19 在关注数巨大悬殊的情况下,微博影响力超过姚晨、何炅。微博影响力的计算方式是依据用户互动行为来进行计算,包括转发、评论,后期纳入私信数值进行计算,数据爆表的原因正是因为网友的海量私信。
2012.10.22 出于对内容安全和内容倾向的考量,放弃#炮业解惑#话题标签,更换为#解惑#(6年后#炮业解惑#话题被夹)。这一年逐渐严谨起来,不再是抖机灵段子和损人玩笑,以解决问题为目标。
2011.11.15 晚餐期间奶头威说自己对媳妇没有性趣了,问:“怎么办?” 随口两三招点拨一二……深夜来消息说是干了两炮,于是我就把聊天内容拆分成七八段 Q&A PO 到微博上。接下来一发不可收拾,连续被网友的私信轰炸,开始使用#炮业解惑#话题标签解答网友性生活相关的提问。
2010.03.25 微博账号 @Fearless 账号被封申诉无果,开始使用备用小号 @SexFriend 。